Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Adopted teens share and advise

I found an interesting article that was from the adopted teens perspective:

When you're of one race and your adoptive parents are of a different one, just walking down the street with your family can feel like the whole world knows you're adopted.

That's one of the things that a group of adopted teens talked about recently when they gathered at a Portland adoption agency to eat pizza, do artwork, and share their thoughts and feelings.

"It's just the odd looks, like when you're out in public, but you learn to ignore them after a while," said 14-year-old Tess Kupel of Scarborough, who was born in Vietnam but whose adoptive parents are white.

But Tess and the other teens laughed about how the experience can also have an up side. "It's great because when your parents are being very embarrassing, you can just walk away," Tess said. "It's like, 'No, I don't know you."


You can read the rest of the article here if you are interested.

1 comment:

Cupcakes and Hairbows said...

I think you were in China when Hope's 3rd Friday meeting had the teen panel. It was quite enlightening. I suppose we will all deal with those things about the same time with our girlies! See you Friday!